This is a general BYF/BYI page for all my social media. Some of these things are universal, others are specific to certain platforms and / or communities. Use your best judgement when reading over these in application to interacting with me in general. I do not owe you 'niceties' if I have communicated boundaries to you, and you continue to break them after I have told you multiple times to stop.
——⠀⠀Respect
Quid pro quo on respect. Respect is earned not given. Disrespect me and I will be disrespectful back. I have a low tolerance for bullshit, if you fuck up, consider that a permanent fuck up.
——⠀⠀Direct Messages
DO NOT Direct Message (DM) me without permission or if you are under 18. Friends and mutuals are exempt from this barring a DNI.
——⠀⠀Pings
DO NOT (reply) ping to me unless it is important or I give permission. I have photosensitive epilepsy so pings can potentially trigger seizures. I allow pings (within reason and only for emergencies) for servers that I personally moderatate and / or own, as well as from friends.
——⠀⠀Tone Tags
DO NOT use tone tags directed at me, or in response to things I have said. NEVER use '/nm' (not mad), '/npa' (not passive aggressive), or '/info' (information). DO NOT tell me to use tone tags either, I cannot. I come off very blunt, monotone, harsh, or mad when I am actually not. If you have trouble understanding my tone, ask for clarification.
——⠀⠀Blocked Users
I block for any reason, and if you're blocked you don't exist to me. ♡
——⠀⠀Friend Requests
DO NOT send me friend requests without asking. I decline any unsolicited friend requests. This goes for games I play as well.
——⠀⠀I am in a closed relationship
DO NOT flirt with me in any capacity, and do not ask me about being in a relationship, I am not interested.
——⠀⠀I am a Yumedanshi
I oscillate between 同担拒否 (refusal to share), 親話外同担拒否 (refusal outside of group circle), and 条件発動型同担拒否 (conditional refusal). Please ask about sharing be safe!